Comments on: Would you ever? http://fibromyalgiaexperiment.com/2009/07/09/would-you-ever/ Conquering the Business World & Fibromyalgia Fri, 03 Feb 2012 18:32:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Home Worker http://fibromyalgiaexperiment.com/2009/07/09/would-you-ever/#comment-36487 Home Worker Tue, 14 Jul 2009 11:03:52 +0000 http://fibromyalgiaexperiment.com/?p=703#comment-36487 I was talking to a friend today about government benefits for people unable to work and he told me that his brother-in-law suffers from fibromyalgia and has had big problems with the UK government over his benefit entitlement. He is clearly unable to work and was recently called into a benefits office to talk over his situation. He struggled for quite some time navigating his way across town by bus and train only to be told on arrival "well, you made it here, clearly you can work" and had his benefits cut immediately. They didn't even take into account the 3 hours it took him to complete a journey that would take most people 45mins or so. It seems that not only loved ones but also officials who are supposed to help that can have such a bad attitude towards your illness. Personally, I don't think anyone should ever date anyone that isn't supportive of things like that. I think your partner should be supportive of everything about you and everything you do. Especially when it comes to things as serious as illness. I was talking to a friend today about government benefits for people unable to work and he told me that his brother-in-law suffers from fibromyalgia and has had big problems with the UK government over his benefit entitlement. He is clearly unable to work and was recently called into a benefits office to talk over his situation. He struggled for quite some time navigating his way across town by bus and train only to be told on arrival “well, you made it here, clearly you can work” and had his benefits cut immediately. They didn’t even take into account the 3 hours it took him to complete a journey that would take most people 45mins or so.

It seems that not only loved ones but also officials who are supposed to help that can have such a bad attitude towards your illness.

Personally, I don’t think anyone should ever date anyone that isn’t supportive of things like that. I think your partner should be supportive of everything about you and everything you do. Especially when it comes to things as serious as illness.

]]> By: Surgeons Thailand http://fibromyalgiaexperiment.com/2009/07/09/would-you-ever/#comment-36387 Surgeons Thailand Mon, 13 Jul 2009 18:47:06 +0000 http://fibromyalgiaexperiment.com/?p=703#comment-36387 Its tough and i can see how you must feel... I too have had issues with 'the secret' I was inspired after watching it and felt it was all a great show and if only it really did work. I definitely believe their are elements of truth in how we can attract things in our future if we focus a lot on them a few months or years before (subconciously too) However i do not belive that 'the secret' is ALL GOOD It seems rather a selfish and materialistic way to exist, i want a big house, and focussing only on that until it comes.. hmmm I belive that KARMA is a lot to do with things, if we are destined to have a BIG house, our future and its Karmic blue print, will provide chances for us, but if we dont do enough good for others at ALL TIME, and always put others first. i dont think it makes sense... Your relationships, perhaps you expect something from them, compassion, understanding, support. I know i have in the past too, but always feel disapointed and alone. Then i woke up, we are alone, get over it, get up and dont feel sorry for yourself. fight and be strong... The mind is where everything lies, its not just thinking positive, its about thinking Realistically and optimistically. but knowing yourself inside out, and being in control of your limitations,... Its tough and i can see how you must feel…

I too have had issues with ‘the secret’
I was inspired after watching it and felt it was all a great show and if only it really did work. I definitely believe their are elements of truth in how we can attract things in our future if we focus a lot on them a few months or years before (subconciously too)

However i do not belive that ‘the secret’ is ALL GOOD
It seems rather a selfish and materialistic way to exist, i want a big house, and focussing only on that until it comes.. hmmm

I belive that KARMA is a lot to do with things, if we are destined to have a BIG house, our future and its Karmic blue print, will provide chances for us, but if we dont do enough good for others at ALL TIME, and always put others first. i dont think it makes sense…

Your relationships, perhaps you expect something from them, compassion, understanding, support. I know i have in the past too, but always feel disapointed and alone. Then i woke up, we are alone, get over it, get up and dont feel sorry for yourself. fight and be strong…

The mind is where everything lies, its not just thinking positive, its about thinking Realistically and optimistically. but knowing yourself inside out, and being in control of your limitations,…

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